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07/21/2021

Twist in fate

There is always some discrepancy between a man's feeling and a women's feeling. Although it seems to be ironical, probably this would be a part of pre-ingrained nature of biology and ecology, I guess.

Because, if the man and the woman have fallen in love in a same intensity each other, they will become blind in love and will not be able to see anything, which will affect their social life negatively. Thus, some kind of discrepany between your affection and your loved one's affection would be natural and inevitable.

Even if there is some discrepancy in feelings between the two, thoughtfulness and compassion to each other in long term perspective will lead to a better direction and strengthen their bond, I believe.

男性と女性の間にはお互いを思う気持ちに、多くの場合、多少のズレというかギャップがあるように思います。例えば、ある男性が女性に本気で惚れているけど、女性の方はその男性に好意はあるものの、それほどではなく、仲の良い友達程度思っていたりするかもしれません。

でも、このような状況は生物学的には自然なことなのかな?なんて思ったりもします。もしも、男性と女性が全く同じレベルの強度でお互いに恋に落ちてしまったら、盲目的になり、周囲のものが何も見えなくなってしまい、社会生活に色々と影響が生じるように思います。

このようにお互いの気持ちに多少のギャップがあっても、長期に渡りお互いを思いやることでより良い方向へ発展していくと信じたいと思います。       

Britney bitch
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lmd2A8j4ZQQ

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