Diary Nov 12th 2017
Some people find their values in being conformed with people around themselves, whereas, some people find their values in being outstanding from others (being different from others in a good sense = you are special). In Japan as a whole, being conformed with others is regarded as a harmonious relationship. However, I grew up with a lot of influence of " fitness " . for example, in the world of bodybuilding or dancing or martial arts, superb technique and physique are important factor, in other words, my value in life is " being proficient " in one's specialty field. However, the more you pursue your own way, the larger the difference in perspectives and way of thinking between yourself and people around you becomes. This is an ironical result of pursuing something to some extent. Of course, I'm still on the way to pursuit of fitness and language learning, however, recently I feel that kind of tendency sometimes. Being proficient and outstanding and good relations with people around you. It is easy to say but not so easy to do for me.
特に日本では全般的に、和や調和を重んじるように、周囲と考え方や外見などが大きく違っている人は誤解を受けやすかったりする傾向はあるように思う。
ただし、自分の道を追求すればするほど、いわゆる世間一般の考え方や価値観と、相違が生じてきてしまう部分がある。もちろん、僕などフィットネスも英語も、その入り口に立ったかどうかあたりのところにいるけれど、最近、色々なところで見解の相違などを感じて、ひとり悩んだりすることもある。意見の相違などでちょっと人間関係がギクシャクしたりすると、「僕は、人によっては、迷惑な存在なのかなあ?」なんて考える日々です。つまらないこと書いてスミマセン。
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